Thursday, 25 August 2011

Bad news

Last night we were waiting for our 8 week scan and the phone rang we both looked at each other and panicked as it was a blocked number. Then Mbs mobile rang and with a sigh of relief it was just his friend ringing from his work number. Then 2 hours later Dr Shivani called, I knew as soon as my mobile called about 10:15 pm that it was bad news. I said straight away "Its bad news isn't it" she said "There was no heartbeat" I asked her how long ago this happened and If she was sure. She was sure. We then received an email from SCI saying how sorry they are and confirming the bad news.
I said to my husband "I thought it was too good to be true". I'm going to pick myself up and try again, just need to work out how this is all going to happen.........
We will be ok in a few days, it wasn't meant to be.

14 comments:

  1. I am so sorry this has happened. There's just no rhyme or reason for something like this. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with ya'll right now.

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  2. We are more sorry than words can say to hear of your terrible news. There is no grief comparable to losing a child, and my heart aches for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Jill and Alex

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  3. OMG!!!I am so sorry..i was checking everyday for an update hoping that the next scan would be perfect.I am soooo saddened for you.Give it time..and when your ready you will know what to do....keep in touch
    kathy

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  4. I am so sorry to read your post. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  5. So sorry to read this news. God works in mysterious ways, gather your strength for next time.

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  6. I am so very sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers...

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  7. We are still on that same road.

    Shivani's call was heartbreaking too. But we pick ourselves up and continue on this painful road. You are never alone.

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  8. So sorry and sad to read this news. Thinking of you at this very difficult time. The heart break is palpable but time will ease this pain and give you strength.

    So sorry

    Avey & Vinayx

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  9. We are just devastated for you. No words, no advice can help, but sending virtual hugs and hope to you!

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  10. So sad to hear this news. It's not what anyone wants to hear....please keep your chin up and keep trying. We had this phone call twice and it never got easier, you will have your baby soon enough. Thinking of you all. Adam and michael x

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  11. I am so sorry hun, this is the hardest part to get excited and then have sad news. You're not alone, we are all here for you guys!

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  12. i am so sorry to hear your news i am thinking of you both at this time its just horrible for you,i am hear if you want a chat!!
    i am just so sorry!!
    lisa x

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  13. Sad to read your news, Love and light to you.

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  14. Take timeout for yourselves, for you'll need much strength to continue on. My thoughts & love are with you & your family. xxx

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